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Michele's avatar

Love this Jo. Just keep being you ❤️

Julie Diebolt Price's avatar

I’m much older than you. However, when I moved to Arizona and the hair on my head became curly with no logical explanation, and I quit wearing makeup (although I still pack it in my travel bag sometimes), my patience is almost nonexistent and everything you said resonates. How liberating for you! I’m listening to

Jo Barnes's avatar

I’ve stopped wearing make up while traveling Julie. Just can’t be bothered! Also you cut off after ‘I’m listening to…’? Intrigued??

Julie Diebolt Price's avatar

Yeah, I see that. I think what I meant was “too.”

Davina's avatar

So much resonation in this post Jo. Observe the masses and do the opposite has been my motto for decades and dancing to "Go your own way" and "The House of the Rising Sun". I go back a further decade than you Jo, and it is all good fun.

Jo Barnes's avatar

Brilliant motto Davina! I love House of the Rising Sun ❤️

Caroline & Davina's avatar

Haha - this made me laugh out loud! And I confess to probably being a life long member where the fees in the early days were slightly different 😜 My mother used to say that I was just awkward.

Jo Barnes's avatar

😂😂😂 Mum's have a great way of telling it like it is right?

Diane Ziomek 🇨🇦's avatar

I've been paying membership fees for years, so I think I should have some good credit going on. I'm getting better at being a part of the IDGAF Club, but there are still some old habits that refuse to step aside. Sometimes I'll do something and will be asked why; my response is "Because I can".

Jo Barnes's avatar

Yes! 🙌

Rachel's avatar

Not quite 50 yet, but I’m knocking on the club’s door. There are so many things IDGAF about anymore.

The peace I feel is ah-mazing!

Jo Barnes's avatar

Right? That's the best word for it - peace! 😍

Monica Grant's avatar

Nice :)

Joy Found Here's avatar

so happy to be part of this club you captured it all so well

Jo Barnes's avatar

Happy to be a fellow member Stephanie and I love the name of your Substack ❤️

Russell James's avatar

Oh, the price, how the world sees the great divide of youth and the perpetual motion towards old age is full of marketing misinformation and observations of those caught in the web of the age-old belief that it won't happen to them. Explaining why your hands don't work as they used to and getting off the ground is akin to a rocket launch because of the energy required and the creaking of joints. Yet the internal motivation to be part of things that gets a raised eyebrow from those not in the club is what keeps me going, and the price of not keeping that alive is one I am happy to pay.

Clare Macnaughton's avatar

My partner and I - he 55, me 54 - were doing the maths and as long as we don’t get struck by the serious illnesses - we have at best 15 to 25 years of healthy travelling to do. So we are now as nomadic as our budgets will allow. Carpe Diem!