The 50+ Nomad Club

The 50+ Nomad Club

Never Feel Lonely Again: A Traveller’s Guide to Connection

And friendship…

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Jo Barnes
Feb 25, 2025
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Visiting a mosque with a new travel friend Helen in Penang, Malaysia

Yesterday I spotted a poignant post in a nomad Facebook group.

"I've been here two weeks and I'm thinking of going home. I'm lonely and everything feels overwhelming." Was the general gist of the post.

Thankfully positive responses flooded in, because if you’ve travelled for any length of time, the chances are you’ve felt that way at some point too!

That moment when the excitement of a new place fades and reality hits. When you're sitting in a beautiful apartment, in an amazing city, living your 'dream life'... and you've never felt more alone.

I've been there.

I remember to this day, 2004(ish) sitting at a coffee shop, with the Sydney Opera House on one side and Darling Harbour Bridge on the other, crying into my English Breakfast Tea!

I was halfway across the world in a completely new destination, the sun was shining, the buildings were awe inspiring and I’d escaped the dreary UK for Australia for crying out loud. But I w…

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