Your Time Is Limited: Don’t Waste It Living by Other's Rules

Break free from the norm...

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Show me someone who believes they’re living life to the fullest but hasn’t questioned the rules they live by, and I’ll show you someone who’s only scratched the surface of their potential.

I know this because I was one of them.

For years, I thought I was doing all the “right” things; working hard, following the expected path, staying in my lane.

• I celebrated hitting a £30k a year salary by the time I was 30.

• I thought I'd won the lottery when I got the job of my dreams working 80 hours a week lining someone else's pockets.

But that was because that was all I knew.

I didn’t realise at the time, that I was trapped inside invisible boundaries created by schools, society, and culture that defined what success should look like.

It wasn’t until I stepped outside of the framework, that I truly began to live.

It was uncomfortable, scary even, but once I saw how much of my life was shaped by invisible forces, I couldn’t unsee it.

The Limits We Don’t Even Notice

We’re taught to follow rules before we learn how to think for ourselves.

• Schools reward conformity, not creativity.

• Politics divides us into “us vs. them,” making us distrust those who don’t share our views.

• Consumerism convinces us to chase happiness through purchases, trapping us in cycles of debt.

Even the stories we’re told about success are designed to keep us in line.

• Get a “good job.”

• Work hard.

• Retire someday.

But whose version of success is that?

And why are we so afraid to challenge it?

The systems around us - from media to corporate culture - sell us stability, comfort, and predictability.

But in reality, they cage us, leaving little room to ask the bigger questions:

• What if I don’t want a 9-to-5?

• What if I want to live abroad, start over, or create something that doesn’t yet exist?

• What would I do if I weren’t afraid of failing?

Question the Framework

Breaking free doesn’t mean upending your life overnight. It starts with questioning the rules.

• Ask yourself: Whose expectations am I living by?

• What unspoken rules have I been following, and do they actually serve me?

• If I could design my life from scratch, what would it look like?

Then take one action today that challenges those boundaries and may feel “out of character,” but ultimately aligns with who you want to become.

This isn’t about rejecting society. It’s about designing a life that aligns with your values, not someone else’s.

The greatest risk isn’t failure - it’s never trying.

Now is Your Time

For decades, you may have lived within those invisible boundaries, following the norms set by society, family, and even your own past decisions.

It’s not easy to challenge the familiar, especially when it’s served as your foundation for so long.

But the years ahead need look nothing like your years behind.

Your experience and lessons learned along the way have given you all you need to step beyond those limits.

• Not someday,

• not when it feels easier,

• but now, before it's too late.

The Choice is Yours

You can live the rest of your life within the limits someone else built for you. Or you can break the framework, step by step, and create a life that feels true.

As Steve Jobs said:

"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma—living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."

The rest of your life is waiting. Will you truly live it?

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